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This thread has been so weird for me because apparently something I’ve always done without ever giving any thought to is weird to people. I don’t give a fuck. It’s all in jest, anyways.

Come on dude. Don’t tell me you’ve never drunk milk as an adult. Be honest lmfao

No it doesn’t. Milk can stay cold for ages. Like I would have any meal gone within 10 minutes.

They weren’t biologically made to drink alcohol or eat big macs their whole lives either yet here you are.

😟 it’s only a drink.

Me? I can’t understand why this is such a weird thing to you people.

I just like having milk with every meal. I don’t like water and having dinner with a fizzy drink is just wrong.

I mean, I just annoyed that milk isn’t even an option in a lot of restaurants. It’s something so basic, like.

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Mean world syndrome is a real thing that you should look into tbh. True crimes shows have created a strong culture of fear amongst people. If you are honestly picking a random fucking bear over a random guy then that’s just saying something incredibly sad about the world.

I get the point this makes about women fearing assault but honestly this outlook is incredibly toxic.

Can we not go there please

Thank you. Its geniuely very heart warming knowing my post is actually going to help someone out there.

Granted, I will say it’s going to be very hard to get them to open up if they go through something similar. Like if someone asked me how I was going back then I would of said grand (it’s an Irish thing to like keep positive and not make a big fuss over things) .

Just encourage them to be open about there feelings even if they are angry. Teach them how to channel that anger into something productive rather than suppressing it.

Just making myself do things is very helpful. I dunno. It’s just that as I have gotten older I find I am better at making myself actually do things. I still have tons of things that I always have on the “I’ll get around to it queue” but I’ve improved especially with school work. One of the things that has motivated me is knowing how much it sucks to fail. How agonising that feeling is. I tell myself “alright do you want to get this done or do you want to hate yourself” sometimes and it seems to work.

Be very careful with bomb stuff because tos is very strict about that here. Thank you

There isn’t. The admins and mods are all in a discord server where we discuss shit and yet me tell you there is nor a pro Tesla agenda.

I would say that but too me it’s been apparent since long before lemmy was set up

To give you the gist it’s basically about inability to form connections. Like it’s not meant to aloof more like that I make shallow connections with people. Like in my class I’ve talked and somewhat know everyone in my class “Been everywhere and nowhere” yet I haven’t made a significant friendship with any of them. I briefly blow into people’s lives and then fade back out without being grounded to them. I stuck far up. The wind here is like this vague force that I seemingly have no control over like a mysterious force that prevents me from making connections. I hope this helps you understand this better.