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Cake day: July 29th, 2023

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  • Fortunately they can write up 3 Rx and then send to the pharmacy every month until my next appt.

    Of course my pharmacy can’t get the stuff due to the shortage so I have been without for 2wks now. It’s a process to have the Rx sent over to a different pharmacy. Easy for someone normal. But ADHD without meds? Yeah.


  • Fair point. I am actually concerned about just bouncing around aimlessly when I retire. I know that will not go well.

    What you’re talking about sounds like what I had in mind. Structure for at least part of the day. Every day.

    I also need to have specific goals laid out. I’m starting to make a master list of post retirement goals. I imagine having one big long term project and a few short term ones would work as long as I keep to a rough timeline on each.

    Back when I had a better work schedule I usually had one or two small projects or else one big project going at any time and was able to stick to them.

    I’m also thinking that taking a class or doing a part time job (or volunteering) would be a good idea. And another option is switch to part time at my current job. I know a few who have.


  • What the saying is trying to convey:

    Sometimes people focus on a few small details of some problem to such a great degree that they completely fail to consider the larger context and purpose.

    It isn’t trying to say details are unimportant. Only that the larger context matters and should be considered while investigating the details of a problem.

    I am trying to think of a good example. The one I found online is something like, “the senator was so focused on the wording of one subsection of the bill he didn’t stop to consider the bill was too unpopular to ever pass regardless of the wording”.

    Ok how about this. Let’s say a company is to unify access control across disparate systems. The overarching goal is to be able to set policy in one place not in each individual application.

    A team is in the process of evaluating a candidate product. They want to complete the evaluation in a set time frame and focus on a particular scenario (web app, specific tech stack) for a proof of concept that isn’t representative of many of the typical scenarios in the company (web, database, API, etc).

    The team spends their time focused on getting the evaluation done and discovers the product doesn’t integrate as well as originally expected with a key system. They focus on coming up with a solution so they can complete the proof of concept.

    They consider their efforts a success when they finish up the eval on time.

    But the evaluation wasn’t useful because it didn’t really consider the overarching project goals and in the end the solution didn’t even meet those goals!

    Hope this helps.









  • Barbara Sher, “Refuse to Choose”

    My takeaways…

    Keep an ideas journal. Write down your project ideas. Let yourself go wild on paper. Sometimes getting the creativity out on paper “scratches the itch” and you no longer need to actually start the project

    We sometimes take on new hobbies and projects for a purpose other than conventional completion. And that’s perfectly ok. We might want to get a sense of what it is like, or achieve some level of recognition, or gain proficiency but not expertise.

    For example, I used to do autocross racing and after a couple years I won a podium finish and a trophy in a local race and I felt like “ok cool good enough” and the interest waned.

    It is still important to be able to learn how to accomplish goals, though. Because it feels good and builds some self esteem and gives us a chance to learn how to plan better, and improve our ability to stick to something, even if only a little.

    I’ve had to recognize that I have to significantly pare down what I work on, and be choosy about which projects to actually commit to. That’s why the ideas journal helps me.

    I know I don’t have to start everything, won’t forget anything, but be able to recognize those projects of greatest interest that I keep thinking about long term. Those are the ones I am going to be able to finish.